PAUL’S PLEA
Philemon 1:8-9: “Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, yet I appeal to you on the basis of love.”
Paul is appealing to Philemon to take back Onesimus who is his slave but had left him and somehow wound up with Paul. Obviously Onesimus accepted Jesus as his Savior while he was with Paul and now wants to return to his owner; Paul wants Philemon to receive him, not as a slave, but as a brother in the Lord. Paul could have ordered him to take him back without punishment but he wanted Philemon to receive him as a brother.
I love the way Paul appealed to Philemon, mentioning the fact that he owed his life to Paul but yet didn’t want to use that as an advantage. As Paul exemplifies, love is the best and perhaps the most effective way to accomplish delicate matters.
We can learn a great deal from Paul, the sacrifices he made, the willingness he demonstrated and never getting to the point of total frustration and quitting his ministry; truly a committed and loving man of God.